"There is no real men. All normal men are already busy, "are often shared by the experiences in private conversations of a single girl with each other.

How to find your love among thousands of men by which we pass daily? Where to meet the only one, the perfect man, with whom you will feel truly happy? How not to make a mistake in choosing a young man? You can, with the years, to fate and evil rock, but it is more effective to take on the construction of your happiness. WomanLove project consultant Mikhail Shirin shared valuable for every girl with information on how to avoid mistakes in choosing a partner how to find a man of his dreams.

Who is he, perfect man?
The desire to combine incompatible is the problem that gets up on the way of building harmonious relations, most girls. In search of an ideal man, we often try to argue immense, meet the superman without flaws. We simultaneously want the guy to be a leader in relations and at the same time performed all our whims; had a good financial position, a high position and paid us attention to 24 hours a day; He had his opinion, he could defend him, but also agreed with us in everything.

Each woman in consciousness has an exemplary list of those qualities that the man should possess her dreams. As a rule, in the choice of partner, attention is paid to the appearance of the young man, his personal qualities, social status, interests, hobbies, a circle of communication. However, it is important to understand that to meet a young man, endowed with all the qualities invented by us, is very difficult, and in some cases it is simply unrealistic.

This does not mean that you need to abandon your dreams and agree to build relationships with the first counter. Rather, it is that it is necessary to filter the criteria for which we choose a man. In other words, it is important to determine what qualities are more significant for us and must be present in a man, what qualities are desirable, from what characteristics it is in principle possible to refuse. It should be borne in mind that the more mandatory qualities we exhibit, the smaller the number of men fit the ideal man built by us.

At this time, other women, not so picky in the choice of a young man, their positive response reduces the number of potentially free men. It is logical to assume that the sooner we get rid of the categorical limiting us, the more the choice we will have. The easier it is to find a suitable man, get rid of loneliness.

It is important to remember that a man along with the priorities for you with the qualities of men, other features will be expressed not so bright or not expressed at all. A man can have characteristic features of only one person. Combine the features of several variekteric people are not under the power of anyone.

For example, wanting to build relationships with a male careerist, naively count on frequent calls and daily meetings. The number of hours in the days is limited. Many girls often forget about it and begin to make a claim to a partner, accuse him in inattention, selfishness. Although the girl initially agreed to build a relationship with this young man. Event development options are not so much. A man can sacrifice the work for his beloved. But in this situation, he will most likely cease to be as attractive, because initially a high position was important for the girl. The situation is more common when a man, exhausted by the contradictory requirements of a woman, faced with a misunderstanding of his lifestyle, finishes such a relationship with a break.

A big mistake to start a relationship with a man, hoping to "blind" him under him. As a rule, adults are not peculiar to the cardinal changes in nature, and the desire of the girl to change the guy causes only irritation in it. A man's re-education often ends with loss of comfort in relations for both and subsequent parting.

Where to meet your love?
To meet your love, you need to decide on what kind of man you want to find. Globally representatives of the opposite sex are divided into two types. The first type is attentive, caring, aimed at family relationships. Young people. The second type is independent, which are successful in women with charisma, who do not burden themselves with serious relationships of a man. Additional criteria in choosing a partner may be wishes to his hobbies, social status, profession, a circle of communication. The clearer you imagine who you want to find, the easier it is to decide on the search place.

For example, men aimed at family relationships are most likely to meet in pubs, restaurants located are not far from the place of their work, where they are in the evening with colleagues come to take a break from a working day. These are those men who do not seek noisy companies, a large number of familiar. They are more comfortable feeling in a circle of friends or house with a book in a chair.

Men, seeking leadership in society, who wanted to highlight the total mass, loving to be in the center of attention, more correctly look for in the trendy places of the city. They are always there, where beautiful women and status men. These are those men who always have with whom to spend a free evening, they are always in sight.

Men creative more efficiently look for in places of accumulation of people of art: in theaters, art galleries, in concert venues. Athlete is easy to meet in the gym, on the court, in the ski resort. In search of the men interested in nanotechnologies, it is more logical to poison at the conference and scientific exhibitions.

If you are aimed at finding a man from some particular environment, then you need to have access to its circle of communication. Of course, you can hope that you will ever meet it at the entrance of your home, he falls in love with you at first glance, and you will live happily and happily, but in real life such stories are extremely rare. Therefore, if there is a desire to get acquainted with a man from a certain social group, at least you need to appear in those places in which it happens. Not to mention that in some cases, it will not be superfluous to show activity when you meet: smile, give to understand that he is interested in you, tie a conversation.

Of course, I am humbly awaiting the prince, sooner or later you will wait for a man, but it is not a fact that it will be the person who we would actually wanted to see next. Is there always a blind in his hands better than a crane in the sky? You can wait for years to wait for your happiness, and now go to his search. It is easy to guess what kind of way will lead to the desired positive result.

How to see your soul mate in a man?
A common case when a woman, having determined who exactly she wants to see next to him, strongly rejects attempts to young people to take interest to her. Often, girls think over everything up to the growth of the beloved, the colors of his eyes, the timbre of the voices and all the unanswered these tough criteria are rejecting at the dating stage. For a long time, such representatives of the finest gender remain lonely, a perplexed, why there are no "decent men" around them.

It is likely that, being enthusiastic with a stupid guys, the girl says "no" and men who were quite suitable for the image of her dreams. After all, it is impossible for one only a look to understand what kind of person in front of you, what is his character, will be comfortable together or not.

There are, of course, men, at the first glance on which, you understand that there is no desire to check, what is he in communication, as far as he could approach the role of the only one. It pleases that such characters are extremely rare in our lives. Men are not so repulsive types you need to give a chance to communicate with them, find out them, walk on dates, because only this way it is possible to find your love, to gain happiness.

It is important to understand that in search of a man's dreams should be spent a decent amount of time. Inevitable disappointment, mistakes, unsuccessful relationships. However, making out of communication with each life-founded man information about what is important for you in relationships, what the qualities of a young man are valuable for you, with which you can not accept, you faster decide on how exactly you want to see next to you.

Having a clear understanding of the one who he is, the man of your dreams, eliminating all controversial requirements for a potential partner, realizing that it is interesting to such a man and where it happens, you can easily find a man of your dreams and make a happy yourself and your future chosen one.

I love someone I'm getting with you

Choose a decent person certainly is not easy, but there are simple rules, following which you can increase all the chances, and find someone, very similar to the man of your dreams.

First, married men are not an option. And the point here is far from the moral side of the question, although of course there is nothing good in making families. Married men are very attractive, careful, they are quite experienced. But if a person changes his wife today, tomorrow he will most likely change you. People are generally rarely changing, so usually a relationship with a married man is a loss of your time.

It is better not to especially show others that you have some kind of need for a relationship. A man must be interested in you. Somehow it turns out that light prey is not particularly valued, it must be considered.

You should always look like a hundred. Your wonderful inner world, light character, abilities in cooking and sex - all this will be noticeable only then. First of all, the appearance and ability to keep himself rushes. Therefore, of course, we must try in any situation worthy and skillfully behave with men, to be well-groomed, gently and tastefully dressed, with good makeup.

Never start a relationship from boredom. Very often, the girls begin to meet "not with that" a man from nothing to do, or from the fact that they are tired of being alone. Such relationships will take strength and energy, giving back only disappointment, because the man is not the same. While you will meet with "not the topics", your happiness can pass the side and get another woman.

Do not look for an ideal, no need to invent some kind of cinema image of a man, and then look for this flawless sample. You have undoubtedly, there is a type of man who you think is ideal, here you need to strive for him, but without any fanaticism. If some trait in your chosen man does not match the ideal, think about it, and is it important?

Carefully evaluate a man. Yes, affect his behavior, some of his bad habits can be, but to radically change the person - no. Immediately pay attention to the most important deficiencies of the chosen one, think, and is it possible to reconcile with them?

No need to put pressure, limit, select the initiative. When a woman is trying to give a man with his authority, constantly shows his superiority, a man has a single desire - to run. Give your man to show yourself, die to listen, be with him on the same wave, on an equal footing.

Modesty is certainly dignity, but they need to use when there are no other advantages. Here is such a paraphrassed folk wisdom. Today, a modest girl should have just unearthly beauty to notice her. So it is better to be interesting, quite fun and open. But it is important not to overload the stick - vulgarity pushes men.

Decide exactly what you want. If you need a good relationship with the prospect - this is one, a fascinating novel is quite another. Sometimes, of course, passionate novels will develop into family relationships, but in general it is completely different things. Understand yourself, analyze your desires, goals and feelings.

Where to look for the only and perfect?

If you think you can safely lie on the sofa, and your beautiful prince will find a way for you, then wait, of course, for a very long time. In any case, there are enough places for communication: at work, on friendly meetings, for walks or in restaurants. Well, the Internet surpassed in the methods of dating everyone on the head - everything is at your service, and by the way, only problematic or unclaimed grooms are not always sitting on dating sites. The percentage and those who are too busy to go to search for the second half to other places, or too shy, or simply consciously made their choice. Of course, the questionnaires do not guarantee the truthfulness, but in the process of communication you yourself will understand whether the testimony converges. In the end, you can deceive you in real life, so just be careful and listen, listen and learn to read between the lines. And do not forget that the appearance is often deceptive. In order to understand whether this person is suitable for you and this relationship, you need to look deeper. Leave your door open for chance, riddles and luck. In the end, love is to risk.

And finally, a few more rules:

It is quite possible to communicate with several men at the same time. At work, you can flirt with an employee, at home - to correspond on the Internet with another interesting man, and if you have to get acquainted with another. After all, you do not promise a serious relationship to anyone, but for now they just look after. You are free from obligations, and such tactics will not allow not to miss loneliness, and will also increase the chances of finding a decent man.

Do not enter one river twice. If you broke up with a former man for any reason, you do not need to disturb the past, trying to resume these relationships. In most cases, such attempts do not lead to anything good. As a result, most likely you will be waiting for another disappointment, time loss and negative emotions. So switches and look for a new wave in the relationship.

Do not compare yourself with others. Sometimes even the most successful women in practice are deeply unhappy, so do not compare themselves with your friends, sisters and more lucky or unsuccessful colleagues at work. Each person has its own unique fate.

Remember that the longest relationships that will ever have - will be with your own Ya. Therefore, you need to understand yourself well, your desires and actions.

Well, the most important rule is to just get pleasure from life. Perceive any life situations with positive and optimism. The relationship was not formed - nothing terrible, but experience has appeared. Rejoice in what is now, do not make out for the future, do not live on plans and past insults. Life she takes exactly today, and this day will no longer repeat. And believe that in a short time everything will be exactly the way you have conceived.

Antonina Lebedev, psychologist, psychotherapist

Any woman or girl dreams of finding a beautiful man with which you can confidently go through life. After all, for most female representatives, the guy is a support, protection, friend and so on. How and where to find a man?

How do you need to start?

First of all, it should be sought in yourself, realizing our nature. That is, to understand your preferences, interests and in character. Only so a woman can understand what a man can make her happy.

You also need to try to engage in self-improvement. To do this, it is recommended to visit several trainings on which they are taught to this skill. If it is not possible to go to such an event, you can read the appropriate literature. The main thing is not to dwell on the achieved and try to make your manners more secular, and the behavior is perfect. In addition, it is necessary to pay attention to the expression of the face, on gestures and many other little things that may seem insignificant at first glance.

Help to find a man's advice psychologist. For example, experts recommend mentally presenting their perfect companion. It is best to draw up on paper a list of character traits that would like to see in a man. You should also think about his appearance, the manner of communication and other trifles that girls will seem significant to the girlfriend. In addition, it is worth thinking about bad habits and negative qualities, aware of themselves, which of them are acceptable, and which are not.
By drawing a list, it is recommended to deliver pros and cons opposite all the character traits. So, the first is set, if the girl has this or that quality, the second - if there is no such quality. Such a ratio will help to understand the difference in characters, and will also prompt where to start improving your own behavior.

The main thing when drawing up a list should think. It is better to spend on his writing a few weeks than in the future it is constantly changing something. Acting on the second option, the girl will never be able to make a perfect image.

Dreams Come True

It should not be assumed that the description of the perfect man is a meaningless spending of time. Scientists managed to prove the theory that if he could constantly vote for his dream, she would definitely fulfill. However, it is worth considering that the image of a man needs to be genuinely, not guided by the opinion of the people around. Only remaining alone with her desires, a woman can recreate her cherished dream.

If the description is drawn up in accordance with any information accepted or on the advice of loved ones, then, most likely, the girl will wait for disappointment. After all, every day, people impose their desires and ideas over each other, completely dissolving their "I" in a common crowd.

In search of happiness, you should not forget about your appearance, because it is a considerable deposit at the beginning of the relationship. It is worth thinking about classes fitness, stop using food harmful to health and so on. Sports and leads to the fore the natural beauty of a woman.

Search for a loved one

Of course, to find your man test from the magazine will not help. It is worth it to approach this business. In the search for its satellite, it is necessary to focus on your own lifestyle and preference. For example, an intelligent woman leading an active lifestyle will never find happiness with a rustic guy who has complete habits. However, the young man should not completely like the girl, because strong relationships are built on a constant addition to each other. Regular discoveries of new qualities and positive character traits will eventually lead to a harmonious and happy life together.

It is not necessary to do

How to find a man of your dreams and why not do in the search process?

Very often in a woman, fiercely wishing to get a man, completely eclipses the mind. In search of his narrowed girl resorts to extreme measures, making a bunch of mistakes and only repelled representatives of a strong floor. How to find a man of your dreams and what can not be done during the search?

First of all, you should forget about dubious ways to attract a young man. We are talking about visiting magic salons and folk leadership, which promise to find a satellite of life for a short period of time. Also, it is also not necessary to try to shock or hygipnotized the man you liked - it will not lead to anything good. Firstly, the young man simply frightened or thinks that the girl is not in order. Secondly, such non-professional actions may entail more serious problems.

In addition, the appeal to the pseudogadalkam is worth a lot of money, only in most cases the desperate girls get to the charlatans, who cares only profit. The frequent appeal to such "sorcerers" will lead to decay forces and disappointment, because the promise to meet in the near future a decent man is likely to never fulfill.

Thinking how to find my man should not be viewed on married guys. Even if a person really likes, he should not be taken away by their families, especially if there are children in it. Whatever feelings broke out between two people, they still go out, and the man, once committed treason, will repeat it again. Moreover, a woman who destroyed someone else's life can attract a misfortune that will return to her by Boomerang anyway.

It is impossible to treat a man too fanatically, almost deifying it. Such actions, the girl loses spiritual values, mentally putting a young man, above all saint. It is believed that such behavior will not have success, and the man will soon cast a woman, breaking her heart.

In no case should you resort to "dirty" methods. In this case, it is said about the attempts to blackmail (it happens that the girl, inventing an ugly story, able to overshadow the reputation of a man, trying to keep a young man near himself, threatening to tell everyone his unprecedented). Also here refers to lie, for example, very often women make up a fairy tale about pregnancy, so that the representative of the strong floor does not go anywhere. Only here should not be assumed that young people are much more stupid girls. The cheating will soon open, and the relationship will be corrupted forever. You do not need to try to drag a young man into bed on the first date, thinking that after that he was not going anywhere. In most cases, everything turns out on the contrary - using the easily accessibility of a young person, a man will throw it and starts looking for a devotee and a decent woman for a serious relationship.

In general, it is not for nothing that the people go to the saying: "I will not be forcibly mil." If women were listened to her more often, their personal life would be much calmer and happier.

Looking for a man right, or what methods are meaningless?

1. It is not necessary to believe that happiness will find the road itself. Sneakeless existence and life for the flow and leave the girl lonely. The prince himself does not jump on a white horse, as it is narrated in all fairy tales that their parents read the girls. A girl who does not take any actions in search of his second half and will remain one to the oldest.
2. Do not regret yourself and suffer. Very often, desperate woman robs himself in depression and begins to be killed about senselessly lived years. Everyday experiences are reflected on the behavior and the appearance of the girl, making it unattractive and dim.
3. Wish the changes, but to be afraid of the whole new - this is a complete absurdity. When a girl talks about cardinal changes every day, but at the same time leads his usual way of life, the young man will never appear. So that in life there are pleasant events, you need to try long and go to your goal. The main thing is not to be afraid to try something new, communicate, get acquainted and try to always be in a good mood.
4. Before trying to get acquainted with a solid and a pretty man, you need to put our appearance and the inner world. A static young man will not pay attention to an untidy girl with whom nothing to talk about. So, first of all, it should be done by self-improvement to fit the male representative you like.

Where to find a man who will be a satellite of life? Naturally, to get acquainted with an interesting young man, you need to visit various institutions. However, in this case, you need to take into account your age and age of a man with whom I would like to meet.

Looking for a man: Where to go to meet a guy dreams?

The most banal way to get acquainted with a young man is to meet him among common friends or friends. This option is the simplest, so it is common. Especially since familiarity through friends is safer. After all, you can ask your acquaintances about your favorite, thereby protect yourself and your time if the representative of the strong floor is the opposite of the ideal.

When friends do not plan any parties, it is recommended to arrange your own. At the same time, it is not necessary to organize a feast. It will be enough to call your acquaintances to play board games or just have fun. At the same time, friends can be asked to come not alone, but with their familiar.

Acquaintance in the network

Is it possible to get acquainted on the Internet? Yes, this is the easiest way to dating. However, in the worldwide network to look for a young person with caution. After all, the monitor cannot pass the character of the guy. Yes, and appearance in many cases cannot be seen, since instead of real photos, many install pictures or images of celebrities.

How to find your man on the Internet? Deciding after all, to get acquainted via the Internet, you need to go to the site with the appropriate theme. On it, a woman will be offered to fill out a questionnaire, in which it should be described as clearly as possible. In order for the answers to be interesting for men, when completing it is recommended to seek help to a friend of male. Thus, real facts from the personal life of the girl will be presented in an interesting light for guys.

Courses

Where to find another way to find your companion of life - visiting any courses or educational institutions. So, if a girl is studying in some university or institute, she should look at young people who surround it. This group of institutions include driving schools, dance lessons and language courses. By the way, the last place is the most successful. Since young people attending foreign language courses in most cases already clearly know their life position and planned their future life.

If a girl is looking for a sporting young man, she should sign up for fitness or surfing courses. In these places, many pumped guys with beautiful cubes on the press.

The main thing, choosing an occupation, pick up this on which it will be interesting. In this case, the girl will easier to navigate in study, and if a young man speaks to her, then at least one common topic is provided.

Public Many people love to play bowling or billiards at leisure. Therefore, a girl who wants to find his happiness can be safely sent to one of these places. If the girl is perfectly disassembled in these games, it will definitely attract the attention of young people. It is not so often a representative of a weak gender, which once again knocks out a strike or that, whose accuracy allows you to drive all the balls in the Luba. If the girl has no experience in these two games, it can cause dating. Unlikely, the guy will be able to resist the pleasant charming request, which asks to teach her to play. Moreover, in this case, a young man appears a magnificent opportunity to show his skills, and there are few people refuse.

Forums or online games

Of course, this item could be attributed to acquaintances on the Internet, only here to act in this case should be a little different.

How to find your man on the forum? You need to closely choose the themes. For example, on the forum on crochet methods, it is unlikely to meet at least one young man. But on the car theme is going to talk a lot of men. The main thing is not to hit the girl himself in the dirt in this difficult theme. Before you start something to write, it is recommended to read some information on this issue. So the girl will have much more chances to interest the young man.

The same applies to online games, because they are all devoted to different topics. Do not look for a guy in very cruel games. Since girls such entertainment will probably seem too dark. Another thing is various simulators in which a woman can easily navigate. In addition to the game process, it is necessary to share your reflections in a common chat, which is visible to all other players.

Night clubs

How to find your man in a nightclub? In these institutions always reigns an entertainment atmosphere that promotes acquaintance. A fun, incendiary dance can become an excellent reason to start a conversation in the future. If the young man himself manifested the initiative and invited the girl to make it possible that he was finished. The main thing is not to forget about the manners and behave adequately that the guy is most interested in further communication.

Where to find an adult man?

How to find your man in 40 years? Representatives of strong sex that have already noted the Sorokalenny anniversary are much less frequently interested in online games or similar entertainment. Also, they are very rarely visited by nightclubs and bowling.

If you are interested in dating serious men, you should start looking for them on various banquets and similar events. To get to such a party and make a positive impression there, it is necessary to carefully prepare. Everything should be perfect: hairstyle, makeup, clothes and even small accessories complementing a common image. Good taste and excellent manners are guaranteed to interest representatives of strong sex.

Where to find a young man? You can try to speak with him in a car traffic jam. Light flirting will be much better than nervous wait. Who knows, maybe communication will turn out so interesting that he wants to continue in the future.

At the airport or at the station you can also try your happiness. Tedious Waiting, Flight, or a long trip, they share people. They begin to communicate, it turns out that a man with a woman has a lot in common, they are interested together and so on. The main thing, while talking to try not to affect too personal topics, otherwise the travelers will remain their fellow trains who will never meet each other again.

A good option is the wedding of friends. At this holiday, a romantic atmosphere, which contributes to the beginning of a relaxed conversation is always hung. Especially about the cavalier you like will find out in common acquaintances.

If a woman works in a solid place, she stands to look around. Especially if men are employees of banks, large offices or companies. Choosing your soul mate among such an environment, the girl can be sure that her future satellite will be reliable and stable.

Women who think about how to find their man should remember that such representatives of strong sex have already lived half of life. Therefore, they are much wiser and proud than twenty-year-old young people.

Where does not need to look for a young man?

In the car dealership. First, with a serious purchase, anyone is strongly focused. Therefore, if you start a conversation with him, a man can simply not pay attention or even boost. Secondly, in our time it is considered that the guy on the road is rich in an erroneous. In most cases, cars are bought on credit. So the financial situation on this factor will not be able to identify.

Group tours are also not suitable for dating. Do not like to attend such events. So, most likely, in a group of tourists there will be almost some women with the same problems. It is better to buy a ticket to the resort, where the likelihood of becoming an interesting man increases several times.

Conclusion

Now you know how to find it does not matter what method will be chosen, the main thing is to remember: to find your happiness, you can not inactivate!

Each woman dreams of finding the perfect man - the most difficult thing to turn these dreams into reality. There is no guarantee that you will find it, but there are steps that you can take to find a man of your dreams.

Steps

Part 1

Understand yourself. Know your own real needs and distinguish them from the expectations of other people. Be honest with you about your shortcomings, you must meet a person who will find your shortcomings minor, but will appreciate your strengths. Sometimes it is the same - decisive and enterprising can be described as stubborn to those who do not like it. Try to turn any criticism that you have ever heard to your side, with legs on the head, turning it into a compliment.

• If you really know yourself, then you are much more prepared to meet someone else. Although personal growth is a constant process, if you are trying to understand who you are, then you will be much harder to understand what you want in a relationship.
• If you know your deficiencies and are ready to work on them, then you will also be more prepared to cope with questions that arise in relationships. If you are convinced that you are perfect, then you will be much less inclined to compromise.

1. Do not expect perfection. If you found it, excellent. But, admit, you are not perfect. Nobody's perfect. If you are looking for a 100% ideal man, you will never find it. So quickly forgive these little mistakes and annoying habits that do not matter, and hopefully, he will also lose sight of your imperfections. Understand what types of annoying habits are so withdrawing you out of themselves, which can be a stumbling block, and will be above all the others that you consider not so important. If you endure no forgetful men, then you may have to come with something else to find the one that will never forget about the anniversary or instruction.

   • If you are awaiting perfection, you will be too picky to see the man in front of you is the one who will come to you in the end. Suppose you went to the first date with a guy who was found "normal" and decided never to see him again. Why not take yourself a rule, go with a guy at least two dates before you write it off with accounts?
   • If you reject a guy who does not meet all the criteria on your "perfect man" list, then you can lose sight of some wonderful qualities you were looking for, but did not even understand this.
   • Just remember: do not expect perfection it not The same thing to be ready to settle down. It is better to be alone than staying with a guy, which is "normal" or "better than one."

2. Be happy alone. If you want to be ready to find a man of your dreams, then you must be pleased with your own company, before you start searching. Forget about the myth that you need to find a person who will complement you, you must feel a full-fledged, comprehensive woman whose life in the presence of a right man improve, but not finish.

   • In your life, there must be a sense - thanks to your friendship, work, interests, which would make you a person who is happy with himself, but is ready for a serious relationship.
   • To grow as a person, and be ready to meet the perfect man, you must give every week to spend time "only yourself." If you spend all your free time with friends or family, then you are much more prone to interdependence.
   • If you enjoy your own company, you will be interested to get acquainted, because you enthusiastically talk about what has a value for you.

3. Love yourself. This is another important point. If you want to find a man of your dreams, you must love yourself. This does not mean that you have to love every part of yourself, but you must be sure of which you are and are pleased with what you can offer. Being aware of your drawbacks, this is part of love for yourself, it will make you a much more landed person in a relationship.

   • You do not have to brag what your wonderful personality is. Just you need to know in the depths of the soul that you are worth a person.
   • You will not automatically love yourself if you find a man of your dreams. You will have to work to develop confidence.
   • Of course, you will love yourself even more if you find a man of your dreams. But that this happens, you must start with basic love for yourself.

4. Get experience. Yes, ladies, you will have to get some experience and understand what you want before you find "that is the only one you will find. Although the lord can fall into your arms, barely finish school or university, and you should not miss it, but it is more likely that you have to try out a few fakes before you find a diamond. Familiarity with different men will help you get the best idea of \u200b\u200ba suitable type of relationship and your expectations in them.

   • Do not meet the guys who clearly do not like, only to get some experience, but you should be open and meet with different people, even if it is necessary to get out of your comfort zone for this.
   • Getting some experience will also help you understand that it is difficult to find a "ideal man". All men are different and everyone has what you suggest, but no one is perfect. If you expect perfection, but never go on dates, it will be much more difficult to destroy this illusion.

   Part 2

   Know what you want

   1. Determine the quality of a man of your dreams. Although you can not even represent what should be the man of your dreams should not see him at the other end of the room and do not feel butterflies in the stomach, but still, going to search, you definitely should have a clear understanding of what type of man you are looking for . The qualities you want to see in it should not resemble the checklist that must be fully fulfilled to be a suitable man. But you must clearly understand what qualities are a mandatory element for the "ideal" relations. That's what you should think about:

      • The style of human relationship. This moment is always important, but it is underestimated. If you are a person who needs attention 24/7 (as a rule, not very good), then you need to find a man with the same needs. If you want to find love, but you need to spend time with friends and alone with you, then it is important that you converge in our views with your man.
      • The interests of a person. It is important that your perfect man loves books, hiking, running, painting, tennis or volunteering just like you? If you think your favorite person must share your main interests, then look for a guy with similar interests.
      • Traits. Although you can not say for sure what constitutes a "ideal" man for you, yet there are certain features that you are looking for. Do you like to mix people, and you need a guy who will divide your strange sense of humor? Do you feel about emotional type and do you need a person who will understand your feelings? Wonderful. If you can not live with a person without these qualities, do not forced yourself.
      • Social position. Are you a modest and you need a person who pulls you out of your shell? You are very sociable and you need someone who would have tried you a little, or do you want someone with such social relations so that you understand? Sometimes in this category of opposites are attracted (for example, you may not want a relationship with someone who, like you, you need a lot of attention), but you should find a person who would suit you at a social position, whatever it is.
      • His ability to get along with your friends and family. Do you need a guy who would fit perfectly among your friends and family members, or is it not particularly important for you? If you spend most of your free time with friends and family and you need a person who would well be well with them, then you should look for it.
      • Religion. If you are a Jew and you need a person who shares your religion or ready to accept it, then you can narrow the search area from the very beginning.
      • Family values. If you are sure you want to have two children or more, but we met a man who says that you can't tolerate children, you should not try to solve this problem and change it - it will be much harder than you think.

   2. Determine the stumbling blocks. The qualities you do not want may be as important as those you need. If there are several stumbling stumbling stumbling stumblingsets, which will be a sign that nothing will come out of relationships, no matter how hard you tried, it is better to know about it. These qualities depend on your priorities and what you are not ready to put up, no matter how it was - there is nothing shameful in the recognition of these qualities. Here are some of them who can be your stumbling stumbling:

      • If you lack that physical feeling. Although you can convince yourself that physical attraction grows with time, this may not happen to you. If your dream man seems perfect, but you can't make yourself want him, then you have problems.
      • Disagreements about what is important to you. If you are a vegetarian, and your man loves to go hunting, then you can either enjoy the constant disagreement, or realize that these disagreements about the basic values \u200b\u200bsimply will not let you be together.
      • Geographic incompatibility. If you are actress and you need to live in Moscow, and he decided to live in St. Petersburg closer to his family, or even live abroad, then you will not work if you both strongly refuse to compromise.

   3. Be prepared to compromise in some issues. Although you have to stand on your questions that are very important to you, and be a week of any sign that will show that relationships will not work, you must be open at the beginning of the relationship, even if your lists "must" and "should not" rooted in your mind. When you meet the right person, you may find that you did not even know exactly what you were looking for, so get ready for the journey.

      • Do not reject the man only because it corresponds to only 8 of the 10 main criteria. He may have other qualities in which you needed, but did not even know about it.
      • If you meet with a person, but you have a fundamental disagreement to which you are constantly returning, then you are probably better to move on, and not try to establish what is too violated.
      • In the end, you can find that everything is in balance. If you both make each other happy and meet most of each other's needs, you will be fine together.

   4. Know where to look for. Know what to look for it is half an end, and the other half is to know where to look for. If you know what your man should be, but spend all the time at home or in unsuitable bars, then you will never meet it. The most important thing is to be open love, wherever you go, because, ultimately, no one can foresee where you find a man of your dreams. Nevertheless, if you know where to look for, it can significantly increase your chances of meeting him. This is where you can search:

      • Ask friends. There is nothing shameful in ask friends to introduce you to someone. If you ask someone who knows you well and understands who you would find a common language, then the likelihood you will be brought with a suitable person.
      • Find someone who shares your interests. Join the club of fans of acting skills, campaigns or pottery, and look for a guy who loves the same thing as you.
      • Look for it at a party. Many people meet the love of their lives at a party of general friends. Your friend can collect together different people who, in general, could blame and drink several wine glasses. If your girlfriend invites you to a party to visit, be open to invitation.
      • Search online. Welcome to the 21st century, girls. More and more girls find a man of their dreams on the Internet, so do not criticize online dating until you try.

   Part 3.

   Get a man of your dreams

   1. Be a woman who wants to marry. What people attract you? What features should he have? To attract the person you like, you should also have these features. In addition, pay attention to the features that complement you - if you are a very homely person, then you will be happy with a man who is not confused under the legs in the kitchen, but never mind spending or cut the lawn.

      • You should not be exactly the same as a man of your dreams, but if you want a funny and confident in yourself, it would be helpful and to have these qualities yourself. He can reveal your best qualities, but he cannot make you become a new person.

   2. Be an interesting person. Find a hobby in which you stand out. Do you like to play sports, draw, play on a musical instrument, or walk around clubs, if you surround yourself with people with the same interests, then increase your chances to meet a man of your dreams, at the same time having fun. You think you do not have a hobby? Try something creative, you can open unexpected talents and discover that it is fun. Become a volunteer in your neighborhood.

   3. Make a good first impression. Although the guy eventually will recognize you better, you must successfully start. Try to look good, staying in your comfort zone when you know that there will be a chance to get acquainted with men. Even if you had a bad day or you do not really want to go into people, you should always be ready, with a smile and joke, because you never know when you meet your dream man.

      • If you dress in the style of subculture, for example, in the style of ready or hippie, then you will have more chances to find someone in your subculture, but it can push ordinary guys. Artists often attract women with multicolored hair, the rest of the guys may not really like it.

   4. Do not be interdependent. Interdependent relationships reveal the worst qualities in both partners and destroy life. If you grew in an interdependent environment, consult a psychologist and learn to overcome interdependence habits before entering any serious romantic relationships. It is better not to hurry than to endure emotional and, perhaps, even physical insult in interdependence. It leads to this - to a bad attitude.

      • If you are ready to sacrifice everything that you love in yourself, for the sake of a man with whom a relationship, then you have big, big problems.

   5. Be real. Do not try to be the one you don't have, otherwise you can get stuck in a narrow role that will not include all your features. If you usually dress simply, and when you go to a meeting with him, then dress up as a model, he can make a reasonable assumption that you dress up so always and disappointed when you become a pair. If you pretend that you do not like books, and enter with him in a relationship, you may end up to spend the rest of your life, quarreling with him every time you want to order something in the book club.

      • If you are trying to be someone else only to hook it, ultimately he learns about it and will assume that you tried to deceive him.

   6. Do not overdo it. This is an important point if you want to stay with your dream man. If you immediately love him - great, but do not fly about it, unless you are sure that you had this magic feeling from the very beginning. If you see him in the role of her husband and the Father of their children - wonderful, but do not mention it on your third - or tenth dating. Let everything go to her to do while you both will not feel a rather serious relation to each other to talk about the future.

      • If this man really is your dream man, then you obviously want to tell him about it. But if you discard it too early, you may seem a bit in despair.
      • Let everything be at ease at the beginning. Go on dates once, maximum two weeks, but do not call him every day and do not try to see him as often as possible at the very beginning, otherwise you can scare it.
      • This does not mean that you must hurry with the phrase "I love you", or talk about it before it is true. But that means that you should know that men also love when they are appreciated.
      • When you together, if he likes to keep hands, hugging or kissing, answer him the same. If he has a feeling that he always starts the first, he may consider that you are not in love with him.

   7. Make sure you are compatible. It is crucial for the survival of any serious relationship. Your man may look suitable for you in theory, but you must also be compatible when you are together. It means easy to laugh, trying to talk without having to look for topics, equally look at the little things, and be able to spend together a day - or a week, or a month! - Without quarrel every two seconds.

      • You can not force yourself to be consformed with each other, but this is what you should look.
      • If you notice that you quarrel, ask yourself, doesn't it mean that you just don't fit each other, or you both just like to solve problems through quarrels.

   8. Be patient. Give relationship time, woman. Do not hurry to the altar after six months of bliss. If you want it to be really for a long time, then you must have patience, live months or even the year in good relationship before trying to incline your man to marriage, children or any other serious choice. At the very least, the first year is just enjoying the time that spend together and work on the development of a strong connection before trying to jump to the next step.

      • If you want to quickly destroy your relationship, then begin to talk about marriage as early as possible.
      • Each attitude is peculiar. Do not worry about what your friends have gained only after a year together, and do not try to force our relationship to this if it is not what you need.

   9. Divide the same long-term goals. If you both want to focus on your quarries in the near future, then great. If you are both ready for marriage and children, wonderful. And if you do not mind staying there, where you live now, until the end of your life, so even better. Unfortunately, such synchronicity with a partner is not often found. If you have everything so cool. But if this is not the case, you must make sure that you share as many long-term goals as possible so that you can move forward together.

      • Of course, you both should be ready to compromise, but it will be much easier if your future views are somewhat different.
      • It is clear that the most important overall long-term goal should be the development of relations. You both must be in the relationship 100% so that you can move on.